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33f. Princess. Sub. Very Good Girl. Not interested in meeting up. I'm into power exchange, clear expectations, being told what to do and how to do it, and receiving plenty of praise when I do it well. I like compliments, flirting, and praise. I love respect, honesty, and humor.
Female (33) Boston, Massachusetts
Hello, I’m very new to this. I am single, it’s been a year since my divorce, no I’m not sad about it, but am now starting to want to explore. I’m only looking for online right now so please respect that. I will only be speaking on here at the moment as well. Feel free to message me, I’m looking forward to sexting with new people 😉
Female (48) Boston, Massachusetts
laid back female enjoying her life. conversation turns me on.I HATE TEXTING!!! I can’t get to know you that way. If you’re not down to FT don’t waste my time.
Female (39) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm looking for a play partner and a friend. hopefully a friend that can also be a play partner. Still looking for people that have experience and be apart of the community. I like to get to know someone before committing to anything. we can see if we vibe and if things work out than that's great. if they don't, no hard feelings. sometimes people just don't click and that's ok. I prefer transparent and straight forward information when it comes to any type of relationship. i can get confused with some social cues. I deal with mental health things so if that would be an issue for you then this won't work. It does affect my daily life as well as other things. I would rather interact with people that can understand that complexity.
Female (32) Boston, Massachusetts
***: https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/accept-partner-invite?key=130eee99-b2ff-4026-b83b-25001b9b7d56&version=1 I’m a CEO, scientist, and public health expert. I lead with precision, navigate high-stakes decisions daily, and carry the weight of responsibility in everything I do. But outside that world—I want none of it. I want to let go. I want to be used, broken down, and rebuilt in your hands. What I Want: I want complete control—of my body, my mind, my routines. • I want my orgasms owned. You decide when, if, and how I cum. • I want my holes inspected, used, and kept open for you—plugged, stretched, filled on command. • I want you to control when I touch myself (if ever), when I’m gagged, when I speak, when I move. • I want bladder and bowel control stripped from me—scheduled, denied, punished if broken. • I want you to decide how and when I use my sex machine—whether I earn it or endure it. • I want to be emotionally bound to you, not just physically—controlled through rituals, rules, and punishment. • I want rules that apply every day, with structure like: • Daily gag use • Enema sessions (time-controlled or task-triggered) • Posture collar wear • Hole inspections • Rituals before bed or work • Permission-based clothing and positioning The Reality: Some days, my job won’t allow me to be plugged or belted. But I will report it. I will accept your punishment. I will never hide behind excuses. Limits & Priorities: • No ***, no ***, no non-consensual public exposure • *** and enemas are okay • Health and safety come first. I am deeply committed to safe, informed, and sane play. • Discretion is non-negotiable. My life is public. My submission is private. Want to assign tasks and see what happens? https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/accept-partner-invite?key=b88bd28c-a094-48c7-aaa4-0ac74e95c70c&version=1
Female (31) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m 21. Female. Sub, Hardcore CNC, ***kink, Daddy/Daughter, Fingering, Ass licking (received), Oral, Ageplay, light spanking, forcing, DDLG, punishment, light choking, slapping, ***d oral (giving), degrading and praising, role play, toys, fingering, blindfolds/ bondage/collars, being controlled, edge play, gagging, impact play and more…
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
I think that I am in the prime of strength, a woman with an open soul, a kind heart, placed priorities, an adequate character, homemade, comfortable, tender and passionate, and probably the main thing is that I am real and sincere
Female (45) Boston, Massachusetts
I am a sincere, loyal, dreamer, with a positive mind, I love ***s and I like uncomplicated people. I like a true love, a sincere and loyal love. The harmony within me allows me to perceive experiences as learning, whether good or bad, that is what life is about
Female (37) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m confident, playful, and very aware of what I like. I enjoy both sides of control... taking the lead when the moment calls for it, and surrendering when I’m with a man who knows how to take his time and guide with purpose. For me, it’s not just about what happens physically... it’s about that slow mental build-up, the kind of chemistry that lingers before a single touch. I’m drawn to mature men — the ones who’ve lived a little, who move with calm confidence and know how to make a woman feel both desired and respected. If your idea of dominance is rushing things or talking without intention, keep moving. I value subtlety, depth, and the art of anticipation... Speak to me in those languages. I’m adventurous and open-minded . I like and enjoy exploring new things, in life and behind closed doors... but only with someone who understands limits and respect.. Freedom, connection, and control all have their place when the energy is right. I’m extremely comfortable in my skin and not afraid to show it. My confidence isn’t an invitation for disrespect — it’s just me owning my power and pleasure without apology. So if you’re mature, grounded, patient, and know how to match energy —slow hands, sharp mind, steady presence — we’ll get along perfectly.
Female (46) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm an outgoing, sunny, positive and sincere person, always genuine with others and looking at things optimistically. What I'm looking for in him is pretty clear: first, an open mind; someone who's willing to embrace different ideas and lifestyles. And more importantly, he's good at communicating. I truly believe open, smooth communication is the key to a happy, stable relationship, so being able to talk freely with each other matters a lot to me.
Female (47) Boston, Massachusetts
Single brat/sub looking for a dom interested in 24/7 control. Willing to travel to Boston hello I’m Sarah! I’m newer to the BDSM world but have heard about 24/7 control inside of D/S relationships and it really intrigued me. I have had sneak peaks into the world of 24/7 control and total power exchange however have not actually had it happen for real. I’m very into being tied up, gagged, edged, denied, made to orgasm again and again. I’m also into primal play and being chased. if you wanna know more, just ask ;) being in a solid, loving relationship before fully incorporating aspects of the D/S dynamic is important to me however if you are looking for this sort of dynamic with no relationship or strings attached I am okay with that as well. alsooo if another female sub or switch would like to be apart of a dynamic like this as well and we could find a Dom or Master and submit to them together…message me hehe ;) I currently live in the Cape (Hyannis) however I am willing to travel at least an hour away, and would prefer to find people living in Boston. I don’t always know what to say in bios but I promise im better at talking if you message me haha.
Female (24) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm brand new to the scene and looking to explore different things. I've always found myself in very vanilla relationships and want to see what's out there! Help me learn who I am!?
Female (34) Boston, Massachusetts
Trying to figure out what I want. Ultimately I’d like a long term relationship but I’m not rushing anything. I’m more submissive and fairly new to the BDSM world as well.
Female (30) Boston, Massachusetts
41 Switch for the right person: D-Fin-Domme. Foot Goddess S-Brat.
Female (41) Boston, Massachusetts
only message if you genuinely know and believe cunts are inferior As a female misogynist, I strongly reject all women's rights and support the objectification and sexualization of women. add me on snap or insta if you’re interested snap ccoller9 insta is badluckcharli3
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
looking to have a good time with someone that is into kinky fun sex!!!!!!! I am into dressing up in sexy outfits,shoes!! let’s have some fun
Female (53) Boston, Massachusetts
Experienced lifestyle Domme accepting new subs. Don’t call Me Mistress🚫 Address me as Ms. Priya. I’m sadistic and love intense impact play, sounding, rope bondage, mummification. No online play. NO DOMINANT MEN NO HOOK UPS BE LOCAL TO BOSTON AND WILLING TO TRAVEL TO ME. My dynamics are based in denial so don’t message if you’re looking to hook up or get off. I require all subs to buy a drink/cover dinner/bring a gift. Only interested in talking to subs who educate themselves on kink and don’t just rely on 🌽 for kink education-know the basics like RACK SSC, FRIES, scene negotiations, aftercare, etc.
Female (39) Boston, Massachusetts
new to the app, open to any type of connection. Submissive but I don’t have too much experience in it. Would love a d/s dynamic that’s more than a ons. Very much liberal:) Also looking for a women (around my age) to join a fwb fmf, age gap, dd/lg
Female (23) Boston, Massachusetts
esp/eng please don’t call me any pet name without asking first, i find it to be cringe. really big on connection and communication. switch, I would like to explore topping more. i adapt to my partners needs. safe words are necessary. Dom/mes require aftercare as well. I also enjoy anime, goth things, spooky things, soft things, girly things, learning new facts.I’m also here to network ^^
Female (31) Boston, Massachusetts
I am very kind caring understanding honest loyal and non judgemental yet also very naughty bratty and sassy. Looking for a disciplinarian between 37-55 in or near the Boston MA area who doesn't smoke drink or use any *** at all. Kik: BostonBrat45
Female (45) Boston, Massachusetts
hi, I’m an experienced dominatrix and I’m seeking a loyal submissive willing to serve me forever if you’re not a submissive please don’t reach out
Female (31) Boston, Massachusetts
Homebody who loves to create art. looking for causal kinky connections. mostly interested in submissive women & queer men. I’m a soft domme. Clear face pics in private gallery for ppl I’m interested in. Must prove you’re not a catfish.
Female (44) Boston, Massachusetts
idk what I’m doing 🙃 , You tell me 👸🏻
Female (30) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm honestly looking for a tall, blonde, blue eyed man who is into treating me like his slutty princess. Tattoos are nice, but not necessary. you dont have to fit that description, but it would be the icing on the cake. I am very open minded. message me and we'll see what happens.
Female (34) Boston, Massachusetts

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33f. Princess. Sub. Very Good Girl. Not interested in meeting up. I'm into power exchange, clear expectations, being told what to do and how to do it, and receiving plenty of praise when I do it well. I like compliments, flirting, and praise. I love respect, honesty, and humor.
Female (33) Boston, Massachusetts
Hello, I’m very new to this. I am single, it’s been a year since my divorce, no I’m not sad about it, but am now starting to want to explore. I’m only looking for online right now so please respect that. I will only be speaking on here at the moment as well. Feel free to message me, I’m looking forward to sexting with new people 😉
Female (48) Boston, Massachusetts
laid back female enjoying her life. conversation turns me on.I HATE TEXTING!!! I can’t get to know you that way. If you’re not down to FT don’t waste my time.
Female (39) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm an outgoing, sunny, positive and sincere person, always genuine with others and looking at things optimistically. What I'm looking for in him is pretty clear: first, an open mind; someone who's willing to embrace different ideas and lifestyles. And more importantly, he's good at communicating. I truly believe open, smooth communication is the key to a happy, stable relationship, so being able to talk freely with each other matters a lot to me.
Female (47) Boston, Massachusetts
I am a sincere, loyal, dreamer, with a positive mind, I love ***s and I like uncomplicated people. I like a true love, a sincere and loyal love. The harmony within me allows me to perceive experiences as learning, whether good or bad, that is what life is about
Female (37) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m confident, playful, and very aware of what I like. I enjoy both sides of control... taking the lead when the moment calls for it, and surrendering when I’m with a man who knows how to take his time and guide with purpose. For me, it’s not just about what happens physically... it’s about that slow mental build-up, the kind of chemistry that lingers before a single touch. I’m drawn to mature men — the ones who’ve lived a little, who move with calm confidence and know how to make a woman feel both desired and respected. If your idea of dominance is rushing things or talking without intention, keep moving. I value subtlety, depth, and the art of anticipation... Speak to me in those languages. I’m adventurous and open-minded . I like and enjoy exploring new things, in life and behind closed doors... but only with someone who understands limits and respect.. Freedom, connection, and control all have their place when the energy is right. I’m extremely comfortable in my skin and not afraid to show it. My confidence isn’t an invitation for disrespect — it’s just me owning my power and pleasure without apology. So if you’re mature, grounded, patient, and know how to match energy —slow hands, sharp mind, steady presence — we’ll get along perfectly.
Female (46) Boston, Massachusetts
I think that I am in the prime of strength, a woman with an open soul, a kind heart, placed priorities, an adequate character, homemade, comfortable, tender and passionate, and probably the main thing is that I am real and sincere
Female (45) Boston, Massachusetts
***: https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/accept-partner-invite?key=130eee99-b2ff-4026-b83b-25001b9b7d56&version=1 I’m a CEO, scientist, and public health expert. I lead with precision, navigate high-stakes decisions daily, and carry the weight of responsibility in everything I do. But outside that world—I want none of it. I want to let go. I want to be used, broken down, and rebuilt in your hands. What I Want: I want complete control—of my body, my mind, my routines. • I want my orgasms owned. You decide when, if, and how I cum. • I want my holes inspected, used, and kept open for you—plugged, stretched, filled on command. • I want you to control when I touch myself (if ever), when I’m gagged, when I speak, when I move. • I want bladder and bowel control stripped from me—scheduled, denied, punished if broken. • I want you to decide how and when I use my sex machine—whether I earn it or endure it. • I want to be emotionally bound to you, not just physically—controlled through rituals, rules, and punishment. • I want rules that apply every day, with structure like: • Daily gag use • Enema sessions (time-controlled or task-triggered) • Posture collar wear • Hole inspections • Rituals before bed or work • Permission-based clothing and positioning The Reality: Some days, my job won’t allow me to be plugged or belted. But I will report it. I will accept your punishment. I will never hide behind excuses. Limits & Priorities: • No ***, no ***, no non-consensual public exposure • *** and enemas are okay • Health and safety come first. I am deeply committed to safe, informed, and sane play. • Discretion is non-negotiable. My life is public. My submission is private. Want to assign tasks and see what happens? https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/accept-partner-invite?key=b88bd28c-a094-48c7-aaa4-0ac74e95c70c&version=1
Female (31) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m 21. Female. Sub, Hardcore CNC, ***kink, Daddy/Daughter, Fingering, Ass licking (received), Oral, Ageplay, light spanking, forcing, DDLG, punishment, light choking, slapping, ***d oral (giving), degrading and praising, role play, toys, fingering, blindfolds/ bondage/collars, being controlled, edge play, gagging, impact play and more…
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm looking for a play partner and a friend. hopefully a friend that can also be a play partner. Still looking for people that have experience and be apart of the community. I like to get to know someone before committing to anything. we can see if we vibe and if things work out than that's great. if they don't, no hard feelings. sometimes people just don't click and that's ok. I prefer transparent and straight forward information when it comes to any type of relationship. i can get confused with some social cues. I deal with mental health things so if that would be an issue for you then this won't work. It does affect my daily life as well as other things. I would rather interact with people that can understand that complexity.
Female (32) Boston, Massachusetts
will share pics upon request. in a relationship so i gotta be discreet. he doesn't know about this. I am unsatisfied looking for a muscular, dominant man to show me a good time.
Female (26) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m a dommy mommy looking for a good boy that’s gonna do exactly what mommy says, I love a sub who loves to eat 🐱 and be told just how to do it, if that’s you inbox me
Female (35) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm brand new to the scene and looking to explore different things. I've always found myself in very vanilla relationships and want to see what's out there! Help me learn who I am!?
Female (34) Boston, Massachusetts
always been a rope bunny at heart
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
41 Switch for the right person: D-Fin-Domme. Foot Goddess S-Brat.
Female (41) Boston, Massachusetts
I am very kind caring understanding honest loyal and non judgemental yet also very naughty bratty and sassy. Looking for a disciplinarian between 37-55 in or near the Boston MA area who doesn't smoke drink or use any *** at all. Kik: BostonBrat45
Female (45) Boston, Massachusetts
I have been around this block once or twice, maybe a few more times. l am looking for someone to meet up with on a regular basis. I am almost finished with a messy divorce, so I am desperately in need of a pleasant distraction. I will not fuck around with men who are younger than I am. No exceptions!!! I have a FWB. He cums first, lol. But he and I would love another woman to share or another couple to play with. My friend isn't into playing with another guy, but a couple swap is high on our ToDo list. But, the selfish brat in me likes to hook-up with a guy on the side too. I am not new to Fet, definitely not new to the lifestyle. I won't partake in a cyber relationship. There is enough free porn and I have plenty of toys!
Female (47) Boston, Massachusetts
i am pansexual and interested in singles and couples and group play of all kinds, particularly with other neurodivergent queer people. I am exploring being poly and ENM. I’d also like to explore my dominant side in particular. I’m an experienced 🦄 I’m interested in developing community and connections, as well as other relationship dynamics with others who regularly test, are chatty, have left leaning politics, can be open and ***, are patient (my time is really limited atm and admittedly my life is a bit chaotic) and communicate well with me. I’m looking to get a beverage of sorts and see how we vibe before agreeing to anything, not looking for just online banter, and eventually will go to events. I’m hoping to find teachers and givers who want to develop FWB/causal/enm/poly/relationships with trust that allow me/us to explore. I don’t host yet and am not very active on here just yet. due to complex life changes now, I am not necessarily focusing on this aspect of my life so much as I am exploring it in my free time. i am 🍹🍃 + friendly and a dog enthusiast with two of my own. CLEAN, last tested 1/26, left politics, constant consent & being in therapy are important for everyone. I expect to see your test results and get your full name before I meet you. Also, you must be 25 to play 🙃 i am a sporadic texter, but it doesn’t mean I’m not interested, just busy and distracted.
Female (34) Boston, Massachusetts
45 yr old female,not new but a curious person, I like to learn more about myself, and others, limits and boundaries are a must but I also like to expand and try new things. Knowledge, discovery, failing and growing.
Female (45) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m a pretty adventurous person and am almost down to try anything at least once. Right now I’m finishing up on some college courses so I’m not always the best at responding.
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
Submissive by nature, thoughtful by choice. I'm drawn to intentional power exchange rooted in trust, emotional intelligence, and mutual respect. I value structure and decisiveness after connection is earned, and I respond best to calm confidence, patience, and clear communication. Outside the dynamic, I'm independent and grounded. Inside it, I want space to let go----safely, consensually, and with care. Check-ins, reassurance, and aftercare matter to me, as does warmth and presence. I'm seeking a Dominant who enjoys teaching, guiding, and taking responsibility for the dynamic-----not rushing it. Depth, attraction, and alignment are important. I'm not here for chaos or ego------only something intentional and mutually fulfilling.
Female (27) Boston, Massachusetts
Nerdy transfem sapphic looking for hookups with other dykes & maybe dates (Recently recovered from bottom surgery & looking to try out the new equipment)
Female (25) Boston, Massachusetts
very shy 53 year old~ my phone friend says we’re sexual deviants …. bring back “toxic masculinity “ PLEASE!! the world has gone to hell….I didn’t pick the bear and I can’t open my pickle jar. what’s a girl gotta do to get some muscles …. 💙
Female (53) Boston, Massachusetts
I don’t play about what I want, and I want someone who also doesn’t play about what I want. 😌😌 I stand 10 toes down on everything I say and I want to be pampered.💋 Message me for more
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts

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