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I’m 21. Female. Sub, Hardcore CNC, ***kink, Daddy/Daughter, Fingering, Ass licking (received), Oral, Ageplay, light spanking, forcing, DDLG, punishment, light choking, slapping, ***d oral (giving), degrading and praising, role play, toys, fingering, blindfolds/ bondage/collars, being controlled, edge play, gagging, impact play and more…
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m confident, playful, and very aware of what I like. I enjoy both sides of control... taking the lead when the moment calls for it, and surrendering when I’m with a man who knows how to take his time and guide with purpose. For me, it’s not just about what happens physically... it’s about that slow mental build-up, the kind of chemistry that lingers before a single touch. I’m drawn to mature men — the ones who’ve lived a little, who move with calm confidence and know how to make a woman feel both desired and respected. If your idea of dominance is rushing things or talking without intention, keep moving. I value subtlety, depth, and the art of anticipation... Speak to me in those languages. I’m adventurous and open-minded . I like and enjoy exploring new things, in life and behind closed doors... but only with someone who understands limits and respect.. Freedom, connection, and control all have their place when the energy is right. I’m extremely comfortable in my skin and not afraid to show it. My confidence isn’t an invitation for disrespect — it’s just me owning my power and pleasure without apology. So if you’re mature, grounded, patient, and know how to match energy —slow hands, sharp mind, steady presence — we’ll get along perfectly.
Female (46) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m looking for someone who could teach me and that I can connect with. very open to talking to anyone :) Looking forward to knowing more and being part of the community!
Female (32) Boston, Massachusetts
***: https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/accept-partner-invite?key=130eee99-b2ff-4026-b83b-25001b9b7d56&version=1 I’m a CEO, scientist, and public health expert. I lead with precision, navigate high-stakes decisions daily, and carry the weight of responsibility in everything I do. But outside that world—I want none of it. I want to let go. I want to be used, broken down, and rebuilt in your hands. What I Want: I want complete control—of my body, my mind, my routines. • I want my orgasms owned. You decide when, if, and how I cum. • I want my holes inspected, used, and kept open for you—plugged, stretched, filled on command. • I want you to control when I touch myself (if ever), when I’m gagged, when I speak, when I move. • I want bladder and bowel control stripped from me—scheduled, denied, punished if broken. • I want you to decide how and when I use my sex machine—whether I earn it or endure it. • I want to be emotionally bound to you, not just physically—controlled through rituals, rules, and punishment. • I want rules that apply every day, with structure like: • Daily gag use • Enema sessions (time-controlled or task-triggered) • Posture collar wear • Hole inspections • Rituals before bed or work • Permission-based clothing and positioning The Reality: Some days, my job won’t allow me to be plugged or belted. But I will report it. I will accept your punishment. I will never hide behind excuses. Limits & Priorities: • No ***, no ***, no non-consensual public exposure • *** and enemas are okay • Health and safety come first. I am deeply committed to safe, informed, and sane play. • Discretion is non-negotiable. My life is public. My submission is private. Want to assign tasks and see what happens? https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/accept-partner-invite?key=b88bd28c-a094-48c7-aaa4-0ac74e95c70c&version=1
Female (31) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm looking for friends first and see where things go, i want to explore my kinks and experience new things too, serious men who really wanna meet and explore their kinks, dominate, submissive. I can switch. I have a nice fluffy ass too, HMU
Female (24) Boston, Massachusetts
I am a sincere, loyal, dreamer, with a positive mind, I love ***s and I like uncomplicated people. I like a true love, a sincere and loyal love. The harmony within me allows me to perceive experiences as learning, whether good or bad, that is what life is about
Female (37) Boston, Massachusetts
I think that I am in the prime of strength, a woman with an open soul, a kind heart, placed priorities, an adequate character, homemade, comfortable, tender and passionate, and probably the main thing is that I am real and sincere
Female (45) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm an outgoing, sunny, positive and sincere person, always genuine with others and looking at things optimistically. What I'm looking for in him is pretty clear: first, an open mind; someone who's willing to embrace different ideas and lifestyles. And more importantly, he's good at communicating. I truly believe open, smooth communication is the key to a happy, stable relationship, so being able to talk freely with each other matters a lot to me.
Female (47) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm a woman who believes in the power of tenderness, honesty, and meaningful connection. I have a soft heart, a passionate soul, and a curious mind. I love classical music, good conversations, long walks, and the beauty of small moments. Life taught me to be strong, but I still dream about true love the kind that feels safe, deep, and joyful. If you're a caring and sincere man, maybe you're the one I was meant to find.
Female (46) Boston, Massachusetts
Shy, awkward over text even more awkward in person. Not looking for anything serious but would love to smoke and watch some scary movies. I’ve only been with women so I’m looking to explore, I don’t have experience with men so if you’re not into that we’re not compatible. New to kink but interested in being submissive and some other dynamics. if you’re patient and willing to guide hmu 5’1
Female (21) Boston, Massachusetts
Introverted bookworm with a playful side, new to the kink but extremely curious. I've only ever had vanilla relationships and I was never satisfied. I’m here to try and find someone who can help me learn and explore all these fantasies i have in my head. I would like to find someone wo is looking for long term to have an all around relationship with but I am open to experimenting short term with someone experienced. I'm into a MF relationship or MMF.
Female (36) Boston, Massachusetts
learning about what it means to take fantasies into reality, not looking to meet anyone in person at the moment. interested in exploring what makes dominants tick, and why they are interested in the lifestyle. substance free
Female (20) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm honestly looking for a tall, blonde, blue eyed man who is into treating me like his slutty princess. Tattoos are nice, but not necessary. you dont have to fit that description, but it would be the icing on the cake. I am very open minded. message me and we'll see what happens.
Female (34) Boston, Massachusetts
if your looking for fun and meets😈 then you came to the right place I also sell xxx kinky content🍑💦 .I'm young right sexy and ready for fun ...bby nothing is free u know this ❣️
Female (35) Boston, Massachusetts
Experienced lifestyle Domme accepting new subs. Don’t call Me Mistress🚫 I’m sadistic and love intense impact play. No online play. I’m in NYC 12/31-1/3 My dynamics are based in denial so don’t message if you’re looking to hook up or get off. I require all subs to buy a drink/cover dinner/bring a gift. Only interested in talking to subs who educate themselves on kink and don’t just rely on 🌽 for kink education-know the basics like RACK SSC, FRIES, scene negotiations, aftercare, etc.
Female (39) Boston, Massachusetts
I am very kind, caring, understanding, honest, loyal and non judgemental yet also very naughty, bratty and sassy. Looking for a disciplinarian between 35-55. Looking for something long term, NSA or casual
Female (45) Boston, Massachusetts
hi, I’m an experienced dominatrix and I’m seeking a loyal submissive willing to serve me forever if you’re not a submissive please don’t reach out
Female (31) Boston, Massachusetts
only message if you also genuinely believe women shouldn’t have rights & are sex objects to serve men I’m a inferior white girl I want to be in a BBC gangbang hypnotized and or drugged 24/7 need to be ***ed and pimped out no shame or anything but a desperate easy whore add me on snap or insta if you’re interested snap ccoller9 insta is badluckcharli3
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
Hey :) We're ideally looking for someone with a big cock who is willing to show me a good time while my husband watches/listens 😉 There are boundaries. If you're curious, feel free to ask. We are very new to this lifestyle, so we do take our time when selecting someone. I (female) mainly run this page, but my husband does see everything. Be respectful & maybe we can have some fun 🤭
Female (30) Boston, Massachusetts
very new to all of this, was told this was the place to go by a friend bit shy at first, as a warning, but will open up fan of anime, music, museums, art, fashion college student have a tad bit of the tism
Female (18) Boston, Massachusetts
im always a brat i like to roleplay through text i have about 14 piercings i hate judgmental and picky people i have kik i dont have Snapchat no more so dont ask im ok with long distance relationships
Female (30) Boston, Massachusetts
If you’re not the type who shows initiative, don’t bother. I like things my way: a little attention, a little priority, and someone who doesn’t whine when I expect… extra. If you’re the kind who gets flustered trying to keep up and still offers that quiet little devotion, then maybe you won. I’m a domme, not into other doms no you won’t change that. I only like losers who fantasize about being humiliated and degraded and wish to worship the ground I walk on and kiss the bottom of my feet.
Female (20) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m a pretty adventurous person and am almost down to try anything at least once. Right now I’m finishing up on some college courses so I’m not always the best at responding.
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
Looking for new friends and connections to explore and hopefully meet down the line. I'm somewhat anxious so I'm easing into this gradually, keeping it on the app until I feel comfortable to open up.
Female (30) Boston, Massachusetts

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I'm an outgoing, sunny, positive and sincere person, always genuine with others and looking at things optimistically. What I'm looking for in him is pretty clear: first, an open mind; someone who's willing to embrace different ideas and lifestyles. And more importantly, he's good at communicating. I truly believe open, smooth communication is the key to a happy, stable relationship, so being able to talk freely with each other matters a lot to me.
Female (47) Boston, Massachusetts
I am a sincere, loyal, dreamer, with a positive mind, I love ***s and I like uncomplicated people. I like a true love, a sincere and loyal love. The harmony within me allows me to perceive experiences as learning, whether good or bad, that is what life is about
Female (37) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m confident, playful, and very aware of what I like. I enjoy both sides of control... taking the lead when the moment calls for it, and surrendering when I’m with a man who knows how to take his time and guide with purpose. For me, it’s not just about what happens physically... it’s about that slow mental build-up, the kind of chemistry that lingers before a single touch. I’m drawn to mature men — the ones who’ve lived a little, who move with calm confidence and know how to make a woman feel both desired and respected. If your idea of dominance is rushing things or talking without intention, keep moving. I value subtlety, depth, and the art of anticipation... Speak to me in those languages. I’m adventurous and open-minded . I like and enjoy exploring new things, in life and behind closed doors... but only with someone who understands limits and respect.. Freedom, connection, and control all have their place when the energy is right. I’m extremely comfortable in my skin and not afraid to show it. My confidence isn’t an invitation for disrespect — it’s just me owning my power and pleasure without apology. So if you’re mature, grounded, patient, and know how to match energy —slow hands, sharp mind, steady presence — we’ll get along perfectly.
Female (46) Boston, Massachusetts
I think that I am in the prime of strength, a woman with an open soul, a kind heart, placed priorities, an adequate character, homemade, comfortable, tender and passionate, and probably the main thing is that I am real and sincere
Female (45) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm a woman who believes in the power of tenderness, honesty, and meaningful connection. I have a soft heart, a passionate soul, and a curious mind. I love classical music, good conversations, long walks, and the beauty of small moments. Life taught me to be strong, but I still dream about true love the kind that feels safe, deep, and joyful. If you're a caring and sincere man, maybe you're the one I was meant to find.
Female (46) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm looking for friends first and see where things go, i want to explore my kinks and experience new things too, serious men who really wanna meet and explore their kinks, dominate, submissive. I can switch. I have a nice fluffy ass too, HMU
Female (24) Boston, Massachusetts
***: https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/accept-partner-invite?key=130eee99-b2ff-4026-b83b-25001b9b7d56&version=1 I’m a CEO, scientist, and public health expert. I lead with precision, navigate high-stakes decisions daily, and carry the weight of responsibility in everything I do. But outside that world—I want none of it. I want to let go. I want to be used, broken down, and rebuilt in your hands. What I Want: I want complete control—of my body, my mind, my routines. • I want my orgasms owned. You decide when, if, and how I cum. • I want my holes inspected, used, and kept open for you—plugged, stretched, filled on command. • I want you to control when I touch myself (if ever), when I’m gagged, when I speak, when I move. • I want bladder and bowel control stripped from me—scheduled, denied, punished if broken. • I want you to decide how and when I use my sex machine—whether I earn it or endure it. • I want to be emotionally bound to you, not just physically—controlled through rituals, rules, and punishment. • I want rules that apply every day, with structure like: • Daily gag use • Enema sessions (time-controlled or task-triggered) • Posture collar wear • Hole inspections • Rituals before bed or work • Permission-based clothing and positioning The Reality: Some days, my job won’t allow me to be plugged or belted. But I will report it. I will accept your punishment. I will never hide behind excuses. Limits & Priorities: • No ***, no ***, no non-consensual public exposure • *** and enemas are okay • Health and safety come first. I am deeply committed to safe, informed, and sane play. • Discretion is non-negotiable. My life is public. My submission is private. Want to assign tasks and see what happens? https://app.obedienceapp.com/home/accept-partner-invite?key=b88bd28c-a094-48c7-aaa4-0ac74e95c70c&version=1
Female (31) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m 21. Female. Sub, Hardcore CNC, ***kink, Daddy/Daughter, Fingering, Ass licking (received), Oral, Ageplay, light spanking, forcing, DDLG, punishment, light choking, slapping, ***d oral (giving), degrading and praising, role play, toys, fingering, blindfolds/ bondage/collars, being controlled, edge play, gagging, impact play and more…
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m looking for someone who could teach me and that I can connect with. very open to talking to anyone :) Looking forward to knowing more and being part of the community!
Female (32) Boston, Massachusetts
very new to all of this, was told this was the place to go by a friend bit shy at first, as a warning, but will open up fan of anime, music, museums, art, fashion college student have a tad bit of the tism
Female (18) Boston, Massachusetts
18 • Autistic • Vanilla background → super curious explorer 🌱 Autistic here—so direct/honest communication, clear consent, and patience mean a lot to me. I actually find the structure and explicitness in kink kinda appealing compared to vanilla dating ambiguity sometimes. I'm brand new to the scene in every way (virgin in every sense, zero IRL or online experience with any of this yet), so I'm mostly lurking, reading posts/groups, and learning slowly. Hard limits right now: anything non-consensual, illegal, extreme/unsafe, or that ignores boundaries. Vanilla me: - Anime & manga marathons (always down to talk favorites!) - Getting lost in books (fantasy, sci-fi, light novels, manga stacks) - Music on constant repeat (building playlists is my zen) - Art: doodling, digital pieces, collecting cool prints/stickers Hoping to find: patient, chill people for low-pressure chats, beginner kink resources/education, neurodivergent-friendly convos, or fellow nerds who like explaining things kindly. If you're understanding about being completely new and enjoy swapping anime recs or song suggestions while answering newbie questions, you'd be awesome to talk to. Say hi with your current comfort anime, go-to track, or a kink concept you're into explaining! 📚🎧😊
Female (18) Boston, Massachusetts
45 yr old female,not new but a curious person, I like to learn more about myself, and others, limits and boundaries are a must but I also like to expand and try new things. Knowledge, discovery, failing and growing.
Female (45) Boston, Massachusetts
if your looking for fun and meets😈 then you came to the right place I also sell xxx kinky content🍑💦 .I'm young right sexy and ready for fun ...bby nothing is free u know this ❣️
Female (35) Boston, Massachusetts
Introverted bookworm with a playful side, new to the kink but extremely curious. I've only ever had vanilla relationships and I was never satisfied. I’m here to try and find someone who can help me learn and explore all these fantasies i have in my head. I would like to find someone wo is looking for long term to have an all around relationship with but I am open to experimenting short term with someone experienced. I'm into a MF relationship or MMF.
Female (36) Boston, Massachusetts
I’m a pretty adventurous person and am almost down to try anything at least once. Right now I’m finishing up on some college courses so I’m not always the best at responding.
Female (22) Boston, Massachusetts
Submissive by nature, thoughtful by choice. I'm drawn to intentional power exchange rooted in trust, emotional intelligence, and mutual respect. I value structure and decisiveness after connection is earned, and I respond best to calm confidence, patience, and clear communication. Outside the dynamic, I'm independent and grounded. Inside it, I want space to let go----safely, consensually, and with care. Check-ins, reassurance, and aftercare matter to me, as does warmth and presence. I'm seeking a Dominant who enjoys teaching, guiding, and taking responsibility for the dynamic-----not rushing it. Depth, attraction, and alignment are important. I'm not here for chaos or ego------only something intentional and mutually fulfilling.
Female (27) Boston, Massachusetts
Nerdy transfem sapphic looking for hookups with other dykes & maybe dates (Recently recovered from bottom surgery & looking to try out the new equipment)
Female (25) Boston, Massachusetts
very shy 53 year old~ my phone friend says we’re sexual deviants …. bring back “toxic masculinity “ PLEASE!! the world has gone to hell….I didn’t pick the bear and I can’t open my pickle jar. what’s a girl gotta do to get some muscles …. 💙
Female (53) Boston, Massachusetts
I don’t play about what I want, and I want someone who also doesn’t play about what I want. 😌😌 I stand 10 toes down on everything I say and I want to be pampered.💋 Message me for more
Female (21) Boston, Massachusetts
If you’re not the type who shows initiative, don’t bother. I like things my way: a little attention, a little priority, and someone who doesn’t whine when I expect… extra. If you’re the kind who gets flustered trying to keep up and still offers that quiet little devotion, then maybe you won. I’m a domme, not into other doms no you won’t change that. I only like losers who fantasize about being humiliated and degraded and wish to worship the ground I walk on and kiss the bottom of my feet.
Female (20) Boston, Massachusetts
I'm honestly looking for a tall, blonde, blue eyed man who is into treating me like his slutty princess. Tattoos are nice, but not necessary. you dont have to fit that description, but it would be the icing on the cake. I am very open minded. message me and we'll see what happens.
Female (34) Boston, Massachusetts
Shy, awkward over text even more awkward in person. Not looking for anything serious but would love to smoke and watch some scary movies. I’ve only been with women so I’m looking to explore, I don’t have experience with men so if you’re not into that we’re not compatible. New to kink but interested in being submissive and some other dynamics. if you’re patient and willing to guide hmu 5’1
Female (21) Boston, Massachusetts
new to the app, open to any type of connection. Submissive but I don’t have too much experience in it. Would love a d/s dynamic that’s more than a ons. Very much liberal:) Also looking for a women (around my age) to join a fwb fmf, age gap, dd/lg
Female (23) Boston, Massachusetts
Looking for new friends and connections to explore and hopefully meet down the line. I'm somewhat anxious so I'm easing into this gradually, keeping it on the app until I feel comfortable to open up.
Female (30) Boston, Massachusetts

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As you enter my forest, know this space is for experienced hands, regulated hearts, and power held with confidence and care.

Beneath your feet lies a threshold. Nothing beyond is owed or rushed. Entry is gained by steadiness, emotional depth, and the ability to lead with intention and stewardship.

Move slowly. Listen deeply. Treat boundaries as sacred, or turn back.

Ahead, a star-lit clearing awaits, moonlight and shadow dancing among verdant leaves, the air humming with fireflies and secrets only few can possess. The path onward is not meant for all.

Access is not granted lightly. Those who arrive without readiness, presence, or alignment will find themselves turned back by brambles and briars. Those invited in possess capacity, embody trust, respect, and reciprocity, and know what lives between heartbeats.

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The partner this feral fox chooses to kneel for is present, patient, and embraces her wholly, scars and all. They earn her submission through consistency, connection, and a shared hunger to shape their future together.

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